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Are dating women that give custody of their kids to the ex husband a red flag to the relationship?

I was dating a woman going through a divorce. She knew I didn’t want kids of my own and not a fan of kids in general She gave custody of both to her soon to be ex-husband in another state. Is that a red flag for her in general and a sign that she probably wouldn’t stick with me either? Or is it a sign that she realizes they would be happier with her ex and she can’t be there for them the way he can?

This sounds like a question you need to ask her. There are millions of reasons why women give up custody of their children, just the same as it is with men. If the ex isn’t a loser, but someone that she just couldn’t live with anymore…didn’t want to go through the hastle of dragging kids into the middle of an already ugly situation…more opportunities for them in the other state… The reasons are endless, so ask your girl.

P.S. If she left one man for you, she’ll leave you for another man…

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